Exam Time Story!

My elder one’s exams started from Monday. Basically I’m a chilled out Mom, or I’d like to think so ;-), but exams used to bring out the scariest version of me, as per my kids. Well, I don’t disagree to that. Even my lil one was scared of me and tells me “I’ll do my coloring very well mom”, she’s only 4. With poor hubby its altogether a different story, even he sensed the tension and kinda stayed out of my way. Well, long story cut short, how do you deal with exam pressure?

Here are some of the tips and mantras i started following and it has made exam time an easy ride for me, Hope it helps u too.

• The most important Mantra “Each child is UNIQUE”. Accept it and focus on your child’s ability and strength.
• Know your child’s concentration span, Study with breaks.
• Time Management plan is a must. Daily an hour of revising/reading lessons done go a long way in reducing exam time stress.

·         Repeat the learnt work so the recall in exam is easy. Work not repeated or revised is easily forgotten..i have learnt it the hard way.

·         I have made a chores chart for my kid in which I have allocated time for play, fun activities, reading, daily to do general stuff etc. This motivates them as they know there is much more to follow after studies.

·         When your child seems discouraged by his dropping marks or grades, help your child in maintaining his/her confidence. Do not impose your anxiety on your child.

·         “Humour relieves tension”. This always works. Be light and humorous with the child.

·         I tell my childhood experiences and stories to my kids. I show my children my school pics and share my favorites with them along with things I disliked. Being rational and normal helps for them to relate to us.

·         I always try to gain my child's confidence and discuss problems with them; they need to feel comfortable with us to let us know their issues. (This advice I apply in everyday life and is not just subjected to the exams)

 The most important point “EXAMS ARE NOT THE END OF THE WORLD”.

Our children are much more than what they fare in their exams.

Having unrealistic expectations from them kills their childhood and besides who even remembers their marks of Std. 5,7.. etc. In today’s modern world, where our children are anyways slaves to the number of classes, tuitions etc for them to retain and enjoy their childhood is the most important. Giving each child breathing space, love and trust goes a long way in bringing out their best qualities academically and otherwise.